Carribean men.............?

You probably can't stop it. If it truly bothers you, avoiding the circumstance might be your best weapon. But I know it's a drag to change the way you do things. But I never knew that Caribbean men were subservient. The time's I've been to the islands there, they seem quite aggressive. Lots of women seem to really want to dance with them. And down there, touching on the dance floor seems quite acceptable.