How can I tan without burning?

Okay, look. I can never tan. EVER. I can sit outside all day, every day, or gradually and still burn, burn, burn. I'm not a redhead, I have brownish blonde hair. My dad and my brother tan GREAT, so I don't see why I can't? I've tried everything, sunscreen, tanning beds, tanning lotion, and I'm NOT gonna get a spray-on tan. I'm a guy, I don't do that. But I'm pale and it's disgusting. Is there anything I can eat or pills I could take? I also have a lot of acne, and I heard the sun cures that too. But I can't cure that without burning either! I don't need an answer that tells me that pale people look great, or that I'm fine the way I am. I can change, and I need to. So just please help. Just a little color is all I need.