Black americans how does it feel knowing your african ''brothers and sisters'' hate you?

I am in college with tons of nigerians,ghanians, angolans, liberians and all of them share the same level of hatred for black americans.My nigerian friends tell me you guys are lazy,rude and like to blame whites for your every mistakes yet you guys are the reason for your own impoverishment and lack of success. They all agree and continue to say mean things about you guys. I am white btw and i have to say that i agree with them. Africans come to this country and outdo you AAs in education and they are very successful in life. Never once have they shouted or blame their lack of success on whitey because they are doing good on their own. It isnt whitey who is holding you guys back it is yourselves holding yourselves back. So stop blaming whitey for your mishaps and get off your lazy behinds, get off welfare and work. My question is how do you guys feel knowing your african brother and sisters look down on you and they outdo you guys in school and the workforce?